Genesis 24:15-31

CRITICAL NOTES.—

Genesis 24:15. Upon her shoulder.] This was the most graceful mode of carrying a pitcher when it was empty.

Genesis 24:19. Until they have done drinking.] Kalisch remarks, “If it is remembered that camels, though endowed in an almost marvellous degree with the power of enduring thirst, drink when an opportunity offers an enormous quantity of water, it will be acknowledged that the trouble to which the maiden cheerfully submitted required more than ordinary patience.”

Genesis 24:21. Held his peace, to wit, whether the Lord had made his journey prosperous or not?] Heb. “Keeping silence to know whether Jehovah had prospered his way or not.”

Genesis 24:22. Golden ear-ring.] Properly a nose ring. It was a single one, not a pair. Such are worn by Eastern women, the left nostril being pierced for the purpose. (Genesis 24:47.) “The presents were not as yet bridal presents: those first come in Genesis 24:53, and could not be given till the consent of Laban and Bethuel had been ascertained.” (Alford.)

MAIN HOMILETICS OF THE PARAGRAPH.— Genesis 24:15

THE FINGER OF PROVIDENCE IN THE APPOINTMENT OF A BRIDE FOR ISAAC

In the events related here Abraham’s steward had evident proof that God was blessing his designs, and was bringing them to the desired issue. He could plainly see the finger of Providence:—

I. In the prompt and complete answer given to his prayer. “Before he had done speaking” Rebekah appeared at the well (Genesis 24:15.) The suddenness of her appearance, taken together with the fact that her conduct and bearing were such as he looked for, would produce the impression upon his mind that his prayer was already answered. The sight of this comely damsel at such a seasonable moment, her dignified bearing, her kind disposition, her unaffected simplicity, would strike him as a distinct interference of Providence. He could not ascribe it all to chance or mere accident. His pious mind was disposed to believe and to see the manifest finger of God. The maiden appeared on the scene which he had pictured to his mind’s eye, and displayed all the qualities which he had looked for in a bride for Isaac. She was civil and courteous (Genesis 24:18; Genesis 24:24.) She was open and sincere. There was no pretence, or acting a part. She was kind (Genesis 24:18.) It was a good action, and done to a stranger. She was simple and unaffected. There was no suspicion or affected coyness. He could not see all these things without feeling that God had answered his prayer.

II. In the control of apparent accidents. The events that happened, though most remarkable in their wonderful fitness, were yet in themselves probable. Some might have regarded them as a lucky accident—as one of those favourable chances that will sometimes happen. But to a religious mind the most obscure and unknown causes are under the control of an all-seeing Providence, and are so regulated as to accomplish the Divine will. This incident brings one fact of God’s government of mankind vividly before us, which is, that great issues often depend upon apparently little things. It was a simple matter to ask a stranger for a drink of water, and yet how much depended upon this! The simple maiden had no suspicion of the greatness of the issue hanging upon her cheerful and kindly compliance with the request. It is conceivable that she might have acted otherwise, and with apparent justice. This man was a foreigner, and perhaps a foe. She was a lady accustomed to be waited upon, rather than to serve. But she stood upon no dignity, nor maintained a proud and cautious reserve. Any rudeness or suspicion on her part at this time and the servant must have looked elsewhere. Thus the great destinies of the Jewish nation seemed at this moment to depend upon the bearing of this maiden in meeting a stranger at a well.

III. In the impression made upon the steward himself. Doubtless he felt that his prayer was now answered, or at least that he had received the first tokens of an answer. Still he is afraid to presume too much.

1. He pauses to see whether Divine Providence is still leading on. He allows time for the natural feelings of the moment to possess him. He is filled with amazement and delight. He will not, however, be too confident, but waits to see whether God is still leading him on. (Genesis 24:21.) When we have done our duty in the humble spirit of prayer, and when Divine light has enabled us to see a few steps in advance, we should calmly wait that more light may be granted.

2. He acts upon the favours of Providence already received. Believing that his way was divinely directed so far, he presents gifts to the young damsel. (Genesis 24:22.) These were a suitable expression of thanks for her services, and would naturally secure her goodwill for the future. Then he is encouraged to ask for the rights of hospitality, and they were graciously granted. (Genesis 24:23.) He was making his way safe and sure—still looking to God for direction and success.

3. He engages in an act of praise. (Genesis 24:26.) He worships the Covenant God—gives thanks to the God of families who had not failed of His mercy and His truth. He felt that he had acted, up to this point, in the integrity of his heart, and that he had not wandered from the way of the Lord. His conduct in this matter is a beautiful picture of true and simple primitive piety. He seeks direction by prayer, and acknowledges the answer in humble hearty praise.

IV. In the recognition of God by all concerned. All who were concerned in the results of this embassy felt that this thing was of God. When Rebekah heard of the Lord of Abraham her feelings of wonder and piety were excited. (Genesis 24:27.) She cannot resist the impression that she is honouring a saint of God. Laban also regards this servant as one who was specially favoured by Jehovah. (Genesis 24:31.) He discerned by evident signs that this was a true child of God.

SUGGESTIVE COMMENTS ON THE VERSES

Genesis 24:15. So quick is God many times in the answer of prayers. (Isaiah 65:24; Daniel 9:23.) The angel had even tired himself with flight, to tell Daniel that his prayers were heard. David did but say, “I will confess my transgressions unto the Lord,” and before he could do it, “God forgave the iniquity of his sin.” (Psalms 32:5.)—(Trapp.)

So forward is God to bestow His benefits upon us that they do not so much follow our prayers as prevent and go before them. “And it shall come to pass, that before they call I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear” (Isaiah 65:24.)—(Bochart.)

The eastern women sometimes carry their jars upon their heads; but Rebekah’s was carried upon her shoulder. In such a case, the jar is not supposed to have been placed upright on the shoulder, but held by one of the handles, with the hand over the shoulder, and suspended in this manner on the back, held, I should imagine, by the right hand over the left shoulder. Consequently, when it was presented to Abraham’s servant, that he might drink out of it, it was to be gently moved over the left arm, and being suspended by one hand, while the other probably was placed under the bottom of the jar; it was in that position presented to Abraham’s servant and his attendants to drink out of. “And she hasted and let down her pitcher upon her hand, and gave him to drink.” (Genesis 24:18.)—(Harmer.)

Genesis 24:16. Beauty is the characteristic of the Church, which is lovely and fair in the sight of God. It was fitting that the mother of the Church, which God was now calling out of the world, should be beautiful.

Some suppose that this well was a cistern of rain-water. We have seen such cut in the rock above ground, and we have seen wells or fountains reached by a declivity or by steps. He had watched her in this movement, and was clear that she fulfilled all the conditions as to personal manners.—(Jacobus.)

Genesis 24:16. How is it, she might have answered, that thou being a foreigner,—and for anything I know a foe,—askest drink of me, a native of this country? What am I, that I should minister to thee? Or, what art thou to me, that thou shouldest expect this favour at my hands? It was good for Rebekah that she did not answer thus. No other opportunity would probably have been given to her; no second appeal would have been made to her. And it was good for another woman, who, long after, met another stranger,—“wearied with his journey,” at another well,—that when she met His request, “Give me to drink,” with the churlish question, “How is it that thou, being a Jew, askest drink of me, which am a woman of Samaria?” It was good for her that she had a different person from Abraham’s servant to deal with. A rude reception of this sort might have ended once and for ever the negotiation for a marriage treaty which this messenger from Canaan was about to open. But that other Messenger from the heavenly Canaan is not so easily repelled. “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. (Isaiah 55:8.)—(Candlish.)

Little things are often the most reliable test of character. They reveal the chief and prevailing dispositions of our nature far more truthfully than a well studied and prepared part acted on great occasions. Faithfulness in little things affords the best promise of faithfulness in great.

Genesis 24:18. Her response was prompt and cordial. She was bearing her pitcher upon her shoulder, as we suppose, and naturally let it down upon her hand. This civility and courtesy added to the already favourable impression. It happened somewhat differently with us. We came up to a cistern hewn out of the limestone rock, and were very thirsty after a hot ride on the road from Jericho to Jerusalem. The cistern was well supplied with rainwater, covered over with green scum. Our dragoman let down his skin bucket or bottle by a cord, and drew up the water clear and cool from beneath the surface. He poured it into a cup and was handing it to one of our ladies, when an old sheikh, who had escorted us, seized the cup, demanding to be served before the lady. On his being stoutly refused by our dragoman, he mounted his beast in a surly mood and rode off immediately.—(Jacobus.)

The maiden manifests that very bountifulness of spirit, which the woman of Samaria not only wanted, but thought it strange that she should be expected to possess. Without suspicion or inquiry, without upbraiding, she is impatient to respond to the stranger’s call—she is in haste to minister to his wants. “She hasted,” it is said,—and said, not once, but twice,—as if to indicate her promptness to meet the demand made upon her, and to supply the wants not only of the wayfarer himself but of his cattle.—(Candlish.)

She now proceeded quite according to the sign which the steward had named. Everything thus goes forward most satisfactorily. She proposes, in her open-hearted way, to furnish water for his camels also, using even the language which the servant had used in his prayer. This indicated, most clearly, the hand of God in the matter.—(Jacobus.)

Genesis 24:20. In the vicinity of Nazareth we noticed such a well or fountain with a stone trough filled, and at evening the women were gathered there, filling their stone jars at the well, and carrying them on their heads. The trough would also be a convenience for cattle to drink. Around Jerusalem, Damascus, and Hebron the water is conveyed from pools or reservoirs outside the city, in earthen pipes running under cover, but having openings at intervals along the roadside for the cattle to drink.—(Jacobus.)

Genuine goodness of disposition does not proceed with a dull and melancholy movement, but is sprightly and cheerful. The value of such duties lies not only in what they bestow, but rather in the attractive and willing manner in which they are done. This is the kind of service which God loves.
Rebekah was a true mother of the Church, for it is the office of the Church to perform large and cheerful services for mankind.

Genesis 24:21. He was rapt in admiration of the Divine providence which had made the event to correspond so remarkably with his desires. The maiden’s conduct; so amiable in itself, and so exactly in unison with his previous wishes, struck him with a kind of amazement, accompanied by a momentary hesitation whether all could be true. Thus, the disciples of Jesus wondered when Peter was cast into prison; and when their prayers were heard, and Peter stood without, knocking at the gate, they could not credit the joyful news, but said, “It is his angel.” We pray for blessings, and when our prayers are answered we can scarcely believe them to be so.—(Bush.)

The mind, like the eye, is often dazzled and confounded by excess of light. We require time to adjust our souls to new and sudden situations. Amazement is the first effect of the appearing of God’s great goodness.
It is not wise to rush into too sudden conclusions from favourable appearances. It is better to wait and see whether the future will confirm our first impressions.
To find out whether God has prospered us, we must have successive proofs of His goodness. His guiding hand must lead us every step of our way.
No wonder the good man marvelled. Such alacrity of attention to a poor way-worn traveller did indeed betoken a gracious disposition. And the circumstance fitted in so aptly to his previous train of holy meditation, that he could not fail to recognise an answer to his prayer. It was as if the Lord were saying to him in this remarkable providence, “Be still and know that I am God.”—(Candlish.)

Genesis 24:22. Is it not in opposition with 1 Timothy 2:9; 2 Timothy 3:4, to put on these ornaments? We answer,

1. Rebekah had no conceit of herself in connection with them;
2. As Sarah was a princess, so Rebekah became the daughter of a prince, and we cannot refuse to distinguished persons a certain pre-eminence in clothing and ornaments;
3. The great abundance of gold, precious stones, and jewels in the Levitical cultus, was not to contribute to pride.—(Starke.)

The thing really intended seems to be a ring or jewel for the nose; but our translators, having no knowledge of such an ornament, which seemed to them to imply an absurdity, have carefully avoided the true idea everywhere, except in Isaiah 3:21, the translator of which portion had probably gained some information, not possessed by the others, of this peculiarity of Oriental ornament. Yet all their care could not preclude an occasional allusion to it, as in Proverbs 11:22, where it could not but be rendered “a jewel in a swine’s snout.” The extensive use of nose ornaments among the Arabian and other females of the East having now become known, modern translators render the present text “nose ring,” as is done in the Arabic and Persian versions.—(Bush.)

Genesis 24:23. As there were no public-houses for travellers, only at best the Khan or caravan-serai, and as it was and still is customary for strangers to seek a lodging with the Sheikh of the village, this question about accommodations was proper, and not surprising.—(Jacobus.)

It is sufficient if we have clear light for the next duty which lies before us. When Providence opens our way we should follow.

Genesis 24:24. She promptly told of her family relation; and it proved to be of Abraham’s kindred—the daughter of his nephew.—(Jacobus.)

Another step in the paths of Providence was verefied. God rewards faithful duty by granting more and more a knowledge of His will.

Genesis 24:25. In keeping with her cordiality; already shown at the well, is her hospitality, in which she goes beyond his request for lodging, and assures him of straw and provender besides. The straw was chopped straw for mixture with provender—as grasses and herbage, or barley. The term for provender means feed in the general.—(Jacobus.)

Had Rebekah done no more than Eliezer had prayed for, we might have supposed that she acted not as a free agent, but was impelled to it by the absolutely controlling power of God; but as she exceeds all that was requested, we see that it sprang from her native benevolence, and sets her conduct in a most amiable point of view.—(A. Clarke.)

It is well observed by an interpreter, that in the narration of this story (which yet seemeth to be of light and trivial matters) the Spirit of God is very exact and large; whereas other things wherein great mysteries are infolded (as the history of Melchizedek etc.), are set down in few words; that man might consider God’s wisdom and Providence in things of least esteem amongst men. I add, that all may see what delight He takes in the meanest actions and speeches of His dearest children; when the great acts and exploits of Nimrod, Ninus, and other grandees of the world are not once mentioned, but lie shrouded in the sheet of oblivion or shame.—(Trapp.)

God rewards those who seek Him with more than they ask or think.

Genesis 24:26. See how he relisheth of his master’s house, and showeth a gracious heart, ready to offer up a sacrifice of praise, wherever God shall please to set it up an altar. The same word in Greek (χάρις) signifieth grace and thanks; to show, that as any man hath more grace, he is more grateful to God and man. It is observable also, that our Saviour sets these two together,—“the unthankful, and the evil.” (Luke 6:35).—(Trapp.)

Such a sight is fitted to move deeply the simple and earnest soul of the guileless maiden. The venerable aspect of the stranger, surprised into a sudden act of most profound devotion could not but strike her heart; and the mention of the name of Abraham, of whom doubtless she had often heard in her father’s house,—and with whose migration, narrated as a household tale, she had been taught to associate something of the mysterious and the supernatural,—could not fail to call forth her feelings of wonder, expectancy, and awe. Who is this to whom she has been unawares rendering what appears to be received as so remarkable a service? It is but a little cold water that she has been giving; a boon that she would not withhold from the poorest pilgrim she might chance to meet with at a well. But what a burst of pious gratitude does it cause! And what a discovery does it occasion! she is “not forgetful to entertain strangers”; and as “thereby some have entertained angels unawares,” (Hebrews 13:2), so Rebekah on this occasion reaps a rich reward for the attention she has been unconsciously paying to an honoured saint of God. The old man who is the object of her apparently trifling courtesy and kindness, as if bent under the weight of an insupportable obligation, “bows down his head and worships God. And the words he utters in his ecstacy and thankfulness, bring home to her as a present reality all that from her childhood she has doubtless been wont to hear, of what was probably the most remarkable event in the family history,—the strange adventure of the old patriarch called so mysteriously away long ago into a distant and a sort of dreamy land. Well may she be in haste to communicate the surprising intelligence she has so unexpectedly obtained.—(Candlish.)

Here is a fine example of a man who “acknowledged God in all His ways.” He takes no steps without prayer, nor receives any blessing thereby vouchsafed without rendering thanksgiving and praise.

The servant’s thanksgiving.

1. The piety of it. He does not ascribe his success to chance or fortune, but to God. Moreover he adores God by His Covenant name as the Redeemer.
2. The confidence of it.
(1) Founded upon God’s dealings in the past. He had never failed in His mercy and His truth to Abraham. Therefore He might be thanked for the past with that confidence which is encouraged to hope much for the future. It is safe to trust Divine mercy and truth.
(2) Founded upon a consciousness of his own integrity. This servant knew that he was in the way of the Lord, that he was led to the house of his master’s brethren by Divine direction. Therefore he was sure from whom these blessings came.

The Bible is a revelation not only of God’s truth, but also of His mercy. Were it not thus it would bring no glad tidings to men.
It is a comfort to know that the father of believers is represented as a man who never was forsaken of God’s mercy and truth. All the children of faith in every age have this experience.

Genesis 24:28. Rapid movements become excited feelings. Joyful feet travel swiftly. It is so, notably, with the highest spiritual feelings. When God enlarges our hearts with them then we are ready to run in the ways of His commandments.

This praise to God was probably offered while Rebekah was running to her home with the exciting news. It would be to the female part of the house to whom she would naturally relate all the facts and all her thoughts. How natural the picture! The mother, and those who cluster around her, will first get the interesting news. The family was settled in a fixed abode; as would seem.—(Jacobus.)

Genesis 24:29. From what we afterwards learn of Laban, it is not perhaps doing him injustice to suppose that the golden ornaments had great influence in prompting a behaviour which had the appearance of being highly disinterested and generous. His whole history shows him to have been a mercenary man, and quite susceptible to the impressions which the display of great wealth would make upon a covetous mind. But, whatever were his motives, his treatment of the servant was kind. Finding him at the well modestly waiting for a further invitation, he accosts him in language that would have befitted the lips of a much better man.—(Bush.)

The presents to his sister assure him that this is the envoy of some man of wealth and position. The name of Jehovah was evidently not unfamiliar to Laban’s ears. He calls this stranger blessed of Jehovah on account of his language, demeanour, and manifest prosperity. The knowledge and worship of the living God, the God of truth and mercy, was still retained in the family of Nahor.—(Murphy.)