1 Timothy 3:2

“An overseer, then, must be”: The term “must be” means it is necessary, there is need of, it behooves, is right and proper (Thayer p. 126). “One must or has to” (Arndt p. 172). “It is necessary” (Reese p. 111).

1. The qualifications are “musts” and to remain qualified the elder must continue to possess the following qualifications. This protects the congregation from. man who is no longer qualified and the elder from. congregation that seeks to remove them without just cause.

2. Each qualification is to be treated with full respect and none of them are optional.

3. The “must be” applies to all of the qualifications and not just the word “blameless”.

4. Some have tried to argue that these qualifications are only “ideals” that the elder strives for, but such is an abuse of the context. The elder must presently have these in order to be qualified and since when did being married to one woman, or having. good reputation become some impossible or far off ideal?

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1 Timothy 3:2 “Above reproach”: One against whom no evil charge can be sustained, not open to accusation. ANEPILEPTOS: Lit., that cannot be laid hold of, hence not open to censure (Vine p. 228). One against whom it is impossible to bring any charge of wrong doing such as could stand impartial examination. This does not mean sinlessness (1 John 1:8); but rather. man who corrects his sins and is no longer held to blame in the sight of men and God. Consider the elder, Peter (1 Peter 5:1; Galatians 2:11 ff). “His conduct should be of such. nature that no handle is given to anyone by which to injure his reputation…it does refer to consistent, mature Christian living which gives no occasion for public reproach” (Kent p. 125).

1 Timothy 3:2 “The husband”: It is clear that the elder must be. man. “A word never used of the female sex” (Vine p. 34). The translators clearly understood that. man is under consideration in these qualifications. 1 Timothy 3:4 “his own house..”, 1 Timothy 3:5 “but if. man...his own house..how shall he...”, 1 Timothy 3:6 “he fall”, 1 Timothy 3:7 “he must..lest he”. The person under consideration in these verses is one that rules his own house, that is, the head of the house. This “office” involves teaching, teaching men and women, publicly and privately, Christians and non-Christians (1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:9; 1 Peter 5:2). Placing. woman in this office would place her in the position of violating 1 Timothy 2:12.

1 Timothy 3:2 “Of one wife”: “Mias gunaikos andra” literally means: Of one wife. husband.

Translations: “one wife's husband” (Ber); “must have only one wife” (Wms), “he must be married only once” (Moffat). Some say lit., this means. "one woman man", but more is under consideration here than just. woman.. fornicator could be. one-woman man. The woman of this verse is. “wife”. “One”: The husband of only one wife or. husband married only once; the same as 1 Timothy 3:12; Titus 1:6 and 1 Timothy 5:9 (Arndt p. 231). Please note that such. qualification would not only prohibit more than one, but it equally demands one. Catholic commentators have tried to argue that the “wife” in this section is the church, yet such is an abuse of the context (1 Timothy 3:4). In the context the elder's family is clearly distinguished from the church.

Some say that the thrust behind this qualification was directed against polygamy, yet "if the scriptures forbid polygamists to have fellowship with the church (1 Corinthians 7:1) what would be the point of Paul telling Timothy not to appoint them to the eldership? If the elders are taken from the membership of the church, and if church membership would not tolerate polygamists, how could this passage be only. condemnation of polygamy?" (Phillips p. 109).

The concept that Paul is only legislating against polygamists in the eldership just does not add up, especially when you consider the like expression “wife of one man” in 1 Timothy 5:9. How many women in the First Century had harems of men? One writer said, “If men with more than one wife (polygamists) were very rare in the Roman Empire, what are we to think of women with more than one husband? Even among the barbarians outside the Empire, such. thing as. plurality of husbands was regarded as monstrous” (The Expositors Bible Vol.. p. 416).

Clearly an elder must be married (all never married men are excluded), yet two questions remain:

Can the elder be Scripturally married more than once?

There are other expressions that God could of used to express the meaning of “one at. time”; that is, “the bishop must be married”. Admittedly. lexicon is. human authority; and yet Arndt and Gingrich (considered by many to be the best in N.T. word definitions) definite “one” here as “single, only one”, '”the husband of only one wife or. husband married only once” (Arndt p. 231).

The more. look at 1 Timothy 5:9 and the expression the “wife of one man”; the more. see. woman whose husband has died, who had not married again. In fact the context seems to bear this out. Why refuse to enroll younger widows? For one reason, they will desire to marry again (1 Timothy 5:11-12). The expression from the female point of view is found in 1 Timothy 5:9 “ the wife of one man”, that is. woman married only once.

In the past. heard it argued that 1 Timothy 5:9 proves that the expression “wife of one man” or it's reverse “husband of one wife” allows for more than one marriage. Here is the argument: Since Paul told younger widows to marry (a second marriage); he would not have told them to do something which would disqualify them from being supported by the church in the future (being. widow-indeed). Therefore: “one man” or “one wife” means “one at. time within the bounds of Scripture”.

I find that the above argument falls apart on the following grounds:

Paul gave advice to virgins that would have excluded them from the widow-indeed class (1 Corinthians 7:25). Remember: The widow-indeed was. woman who had also “brought up children”. Therefore to argue that Paul would have never given instructions to women which would later exclude them from the “widow-indeed” category is false, because Paul did tell virgins not to marry. It is assumed that if. widow was not. widow indeed then she would not be taken care of. Such is false. (1 Timothy 5:4; 1 Timothy 5:16) The Church has the right to support all Christians in need, including widows that did not meet the qualifications to be. widow indeed. The point is that the widow indeed was. woman who was permanently supported by the church. (1 Timothy 5:9)

Yet some argue that the statement “husband of one wife” has no allusion to the number of deceased wives. man may have had. “If my wife is dead,. am not now her husband” (The Eldership, McGarvey, pp. 57). Yet lexicons such as Arndt and Gringrich, point out that the expression can equally mean, “married only once”. And this definition seems to be the thrust of. similar passage in 1 Timothy 5:9.

Some have argued that getting remarried, such as for. widower is not. sin, therefore such. person cannot be prevented from serving as an elder, seeing that God would allow an elder to do all lawful things, however it is not. sin to be single or remain childless but such things do prevent. man from serving.

Does. man lose this qualification when his wife dies?

In previous studies on this subject the adult class brought out. good point, and challenged. common assumption as to “what the purpose is behind the elder having. wife”? To gain experience in ruling his household (a common assumption)? Or was it for support in his work as an elder? Do wives exist for experience or support? (Genesis 2:18; Malachi 2:14) The “one wife” qualification is separated from the “ruleth well his own house” (1 Timothy 3:4) qualification. Experience may not be the only purpose, or the purpose at all in God's mind for the elder being married. In addition, some women are mentioned in 1 Timothy 3:11 (presumably the wives of the elders and deacons). This indicates that elders and deacons have wives of character. Would this not imply the wives are living? That is, before you appoint men, consider the character of their wives also.

The argument that once. man has proven he can lead. wife and family, he still remains qualified even though his wife dies, because he has not lost the experience of ruling well, rests on the assumption that she exists only for his experience of having. family and ruling them. With certain qualifiers, “husband of one wife” could refer to. man whose wife has died, such as “having been”. Yet there is nothing that qualifies 1 Timothy 3:2 or Titus 1:6 in the verse or the context. Admittedly, the qualifications (overwhelming) refer to present conditions in this man's life, and qualities this man must have to remain an elder. Can we conclusively prove that “husband of one wife” (and believing children) are exceptions ?

The like expression “the wife of one man” (1 Timothy 5:9) is used when it is clear that the one man is dead, yet the word widow in the first part of the verse tells us that we must interpret “the wife of one man” as meaning “having been the wife of one man”. In this verse “the wife of one man” cannot mean that she presently has. husband. The reason that. bring this up, is because some would say that the expression “husband of one wife” would still apply even if the man's wife was dead. From Romans 7:3 it is clear that the person whose mate has died is not married to anyone and thus is not the husband of one wife. The problem with allowing the interpretation, “having been” the husband of one wife, is that cannot we do this with any of the other qualifications. Are these qualifications mandatory for the elder at the present, or can they be things of the past?

One final argument we can discard: To argue that it is arbitrary and absurd to require of. bishop any physical quality over which he may not have any control (such as the death of. wife) is not true. Aging is also. physical condition over which an elder has no control. Yet an elder must resign if age (something he has no control over) has taken from him his apt to teach and sober-minded qualities.

1 Timothy 3:2 “Temperate”: “Vigilant” (KJV). Clear headed, self-controlled, to be calm, dispassionate and circumspect, wise caution may be included; attentive. Sober and wary; not given to frivolity of mind, common sense and collected in spirit.

The work of an elder requires. clear, vigilant mind, unhampered by drunkenness or self-ego. It means the bishop must be. self-controlled, watchful, alert man, having. foresight to know the end of. course being followed. The word itself had meant abstaining from wine entirely, and is so used by Josephus. It had also. metaphorical usage in the sense of spiritually sober, calm, and sober in judgment.

1 Timothy 3:2 “Prudent”: The same word is found in Titus 1:8. Sensible, master of himself, curbing one's desires and impulses, thoughtful, one sound, self-controlled, one who is not flippant. Not that the elder must be long-faced, but that he should be earnest and have. balanced judgment to relegate fun to its proper place.

One with this qualification would indeed take seriously his duties to "take heed" to himself and the flock he oversees. Those who lightly esteem spiritual responsibility and cannot "get serious" are not equipped to be elders. An elder must possess. mind that can get serious, that can deal realistically with all matters pertaining to the work.

1 Timothy 3:2 “Respectable”: Dignified, unruffled,. well ordered life, having respect for order. “His discourse, dress, visage, gait, his manners, must all be suitable to the gravity of his function” (MacKnight p. 209).. man living with decorum. His is not childish, clownish, rude, crude, sour, boisterous or boorish. Remember, he will be relating to people both in and outside the church. The eldership is not place for. man who is known for unfinished plans and unorganized activity” (Reese p. 116). The elder must also be. gentleman, courteous, have good manners, be polite, not uncouth or rough. This is the man who orders well both his inward and outward life.

1 Timothy 3:2 “Hospitable”: Fond of guests. Generous to guests,. love of strangers.. man with an open heart and. open home. The elder is not some man in an ivory tower, but rather he is. sociable man,. companion of the congregation, he is assessable to the members, they are welcome in his home. “Persecution, poverty, and the plight of widows and orphans gave additional opportunity for hospitality to be exercised” (Kent p. 132).

1 Timothy 3:2 “Able to teach”: Skillful in teaching, able to teach, qualified to teach.

No two men can claim to have exactly the same ability and knowledge to teach. Some have the talent to teach privately or in small groups, while others can do so before large classes or assemblies. Titus 1:9 more precisely defines the amount of knowledge and skill in teaching that the elder must possess. He must know the word and he must be willing to use it. To exhort with it and to refute, expose, show the error of those that stand in opposition. He must have. working knowledge. The elder cannot view himself as having the right to “speculate or teach doctrines that have no biblical foundation”.