1 Timothy 2:12-14
12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Does the Bible limit the ministry of women?
PROBLEM: Paul said here that he did not “permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.” Likewise, in 1 Corinthians 14:34 he added, “Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak” (cf. 1 Peter 3:5-6). Doesn’t this deny women a ministry and degrade their personality?
SOLUTION: Not at all. When properly understood in context, these and many other passages in the Bible exalt the role of women and give them a tremendous ministry in the body of Christ. Several things should be kept in mind on the topic of the role of women in the church.
First, the Bible declares that women, like men, are in the image of God (Genesis 1:27). That is, they are equal with men by nature. There is no essential difference— both male and female are equally human by creation.
Second, both women and men are equal by redemption. They both have the same Lord and both share equally in exactly the same salvation. For in Christ “there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28).
Fourth, throughout the Bible, God gifted, blessed, and greatly used women in the ministry. This includes Miriam, the first minister of music (Exodus 15:20), Deborah (Judges 4:4), Huldah the prophetess (2 Chronicles 34:22), Anna the prophetess (Luke 2:36), Priscilla the Bible teacher (Acts 18:26), and Phoebe the deaconess (Romans 16:1).
Fifth, Jesus had many women who assisted Him in the ministry (cf. Luke 23:49; John 11). Indeed, it is very significant that in a patriarchal culture that Jesus chose women for His first two resurrection appearances (Matthew 28:1-10; John 20:10-18). St. Peter did not make it until the third round (1 Corinthians 15:5)!
Sixth, whatever Paul may have meant by the “women be silent” passages, he certainly did not mean that they should have no ministry in the church. This is clear for several reasons. For one thing, in the same book (of 1 Corinthians), Paul instructed women on how they should pray and prophesy in the church, namely, in a decent and orderly way (cf. 11:5). Further, there were also times when all the men were to be “silent” as well, namely, when someone else was giving an utterance from God (cf. 14:28). Finally, Paul did not hesitate to use women to assist him in the ministry, as is indicated by the crucial role he gave to Phoebe in delivering to its destination the great epistle to the Romans (Romans 16:1).
Seventh, when understood in context, the “silence” passages are not negating the ministry of women, but are limiting the authority of women. Paul asserts that women were not permitted “to have authority over a man” (1 Timothy 2:12). Likewise, he follows his exhortation to “keep silent” by reminding them to be “submissive” (1 Corinthians 14:34). Of course, men too were under authority and needed to submit to the headship of Christ over them (1 Corinthians 11:3). Indeed, the ultimate proof that there is nothing degrading about being submissive is that Christ, who was God in human flesh, is always submissive to the Father, both on earth (Philippians 2:5-8) and even in heaven (1 Corinthians 15:28). That male headship and leadership is not simply a cultural matter is evident by the fact that it is based on the very order of creation (1 Corinthians 11:9; 1 Timothy 2:13). Thus, elders are to be men, “the husband of one wife” (1 Timothy 3:2). This, however, in no way demeans or diminishes the role of women, either in the family or in the church. The fact that men cannot have babies is not demeaning to their humanity or their role in the family. It is simply that God has not granted them this function, but a different one.
Eighth, God has given women an exalted role both by order of creation and redemption. First of all, Eve was not created from Adam’s feet to be walked on by him, nor from his head to rule over him, but from his side to be equal to him and companion of him (cf. Genesis 2:19-25). Furthermore, every man ever born was carried in a woman’s womb (1 Corinthians 11:12) and then, the vast majority were nurtured by her through infancy, childhood, and youth until they grew up. In addition, when God chose the vessel by which He Himself would become manifest in human flesh (John 1:14), it was not by direct creation of a body (as Adam), or in assuming a visible form (as the angel of the Lord), nor was it by cloning a male human being. Rather, it was by being miraculously conceived and carried to full term in a woman’s womb, the blessed virgin Mary (Matthew 1:20-21; Galatians 4:4). What is more, God has, through the birth and nurturing process, endowed woman with the most marvelous role in forming all human beings, including every man, at the most tender and impressionable time in their lives, both prenatal (cf. Psalms 139:13-18) and postnatal.
Finally, in the church, God has made women “one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28) and bestowed upon them the gifts of the spirit (1 Corinthians 12; 1 Corinthians 14; Romans 12) whereby they can edify the body of Christ, including prophecy (cf. Acts 2:17-18; Acts 21:9) and teaching (Acts 18:26; Titus 2:4).