Genesis 32:13

Which came to his hand— Not any thing which offered itself by chance, as this phrase seems to import: for it is very evident, that the present was selected with great care, and was of the choicest kind: milch-camels in particular were a very exquisite present, as their milk was held in the greatest estimation: see Bochart Hieroz. p. 1. But the phrase means, which was in his power, which he had to present him with, see 1 Samuel 25:8. This whole transaction and disposition of the present shews the prudence and sagacity of Jacob.

REFLECTIONS.—Jacob having poured out his soul to God in prayer, in dependance on his care, takes the most likely methods to appease his brother's resentment.

1. By a considerable present, so divided into several droves, as both to set them off, and to serve, from their repeated reproach, to stay Esau for inquiry: thus giving him time to think, and such matter to muse upon, as might allay the fury of his anger. Note; (1.) We cannot buy peace too dear, if we sell not our conscience. (2.) It is wisdom to present a part, if that can preserve the whole. Some through covetousness to spare a shilling, often lose a pound.

2. By a submissive message. Esau must be called my lord, and Jacob his servant. Alas! it tickles vain minds to have their titles repeated to them. Every servant pays his respects in Jacob's name, and adds, that Jacob himself was behind. Note; Apparent confidence in a man's goodness lays him under a kind of obligation to shew it.